
Bullying and victimization are associated with a youth’s interactions and socialization in the family, and more specifically, parenting practices. Parenting practices in South Korea have been characterized as being harsh and controlling to overly permissive. Even teachers will often dismiss an instance of bullying as something that the family, and not the school, should deal with. To this end, will changing the familial environment have any effect on how a child behaves in school?
Research has found that children were aggressive toward their classmates when parents frequently used physical and psychological punishment as forms of control. Parental behaviors were most highly correlated with childrens’ aggression for both boys and girls. On the contrary, care-givers who provide emotional support can buffer youth against negative peer relationships that encourage bullying and aggressive behaviors (Shields & Cicchetti, 2001). As such, several bullying intervention programs in South Korea have targeted parenting behaviors and practices.
One such program involves psychodynamic art therapy (Chun et al., 2003). Here, the researcher examined whether psychodynamic art therapy influences child rearing attitudes, mothers’ emotion expression, and mothers’ understanding of bullied and victimized children’s behavior. Results indicated that this therapy was effective in reducing aggressive and maladjusted behaviors among students identified as bullies. The therapy targeted both the individual behavior of the youth and the parenting practices of the mothers. Prior to this therapy, the mothers of the bullies displayed aggression/hostility, neglect/indifference, and rejection toward their own children. After the therapy sessions, these mothers showed less aggression and hostility, and displayed greater warmth and affection to their children (Chun et al., 2003).
Though this is only one instance of a successful program, it suggests that parents who show more empathy and warmth could exert a positive influence on their children. Further studies should continue this trend and study whether or not this difference in parental behavior will also have a positive influence on children who are not only victims of bullying but also perpetrators of bullying themselves.